I’m the author of Relax, It’s Just God, co-author of ParentShift, and founder of Brown Paper Press, an independent book publishing company in Long Beach, California. A former investigative journalist, I now write about parenting for the ParentShift Blog and the PBS NewsHour; about publishing for Notes in the Margins; and about whatever else strikes me on this website. Oh, and I’ve recently begun a monthly newsletter called The Bowling Alley. You can check out past editions and subscribe by clicking here.
Books
My first book, Relax, It's Just God: How and Why to Talk to Your Kids About Religion When You're Not Religious, was published in 2015. My second, ParentShift: Ten Universal Truths That Will Change the Way You Raise Your Kids, co-authored by Ty and Linda Hatfield, was released in 2019.
Blogs
Most of my blogging has been parent-related. First I had Natural Wonderers on the Patheos network. Now I write the ParentShift Blog and an occasional column for the PBS NewsHour. Sometimes I share my thoughts on publishing over at Notes in the Margins. Is this too much blogging? Oh for sure.
Business
In 2014, I co-founded Brown Paper Press to engage readers on topics of contemporary culture. BPP is focused primarily on nonfiction with a progressive bent and has published seven titles so far. At the moment, Brown Paper Press, is a one-woman show. I am the one woman.
News and Stuff
Every once in a while, Dateline NBC re-airs its episode, “In Broad Daylight,” about the murder of a Long Beach woman named Lynn Schockner 14 years ago. I was interviewed for the episode because I covered the husband’s trial (yeah, the husband did it, so cliché), as well as the trial of his two murder-for-hire accomplices.
Thrilled and proud to announce the release of ParentShift — a book written by me and two phenomenal parenting coaches, Linda and Ty Hatfield, of Parenting from the Heart. Three years ago this week, I sat down with Ty and Linda to talk about the possibility of writing a book together.
I started Notes in the Margins: A Publishing Blog, over at Brown Paper Press last spring, only to put it largely on hold when my dad got sick and then, eventually, died. He was a figure who held tremendous importance in my life, both personally and professionally. So I wrote a thing.
My next book, ParentShift: Ten Universal Truths That Will Change the Way You Raise Your Kids (co-written by parenting educators Linda and Ty Hatfield), got an unlikely surge of interest last month when the piece I filmed for the NewsHour (the one about timeouts) went viral ten months after it was released.
The book's been out since March and has gotten some truly outstanding press, but nothing compares to PBS. I'm feeling so grateful — one (who is obviously not me) might even say blessed — for the opportunity to get the word out about my work.
I am very proud and happy to announce that my book will be featured on the PBS NewsHour's BookShelf segment sometime in the following week.
Parenting an only? If so, you've probably heard the litany of reasons to have more children. (Haven't we all?) But there are two sides to every story, and to provide a bit of balance (and humor) to the procreation debate, I've written an essay in defense of making your kid an only. It was published this morning over at the PBS NewsHour, and I'd be awfully grateful if you gave it read.
Although there are more than 33,000 (!!) Protestant denominations, all of them still operate in ways that are separate and distinct from the Catholic Church. But what are the differences, really? I mean, all Christians Churches hold the same core value: Jesus Christ was the son of the God who died for our sins, arose from the dead, and ascended to heaven. Isn't the rest just window-dressing? Well, here, you decide.
So can we talk about near-death experiences for a minute? You know — the whole tunnels-and-bright-lights thing? I bring it up because a good friend recently shared with me a YouTube video featuring an 18-year-old with heart disease. In the video, the high school senior, whose name is Ben Breedlove, uses index cards and music to tell the story of his life, his illness and his three near-death experiences.
After reading yet another story on the flap over the Girl Scouts book I wrote, I'm reminded once again at how irrationally freaked out some parents become when their kids are exposed to ideas different from their own. Whether it's nonreligious parents instructing their kids on what to think about Catholicism, or conservatives instructing kids on what to think about gay marriage, the short-sightedness involved in both is the same.
Well, they got it mostly right. And, dammit, maybe that's enough. The current issue of Psychology Today contains a really great piece about atheism and agnosticism and what it terms "a new breed of nonbelievers." Apparently I belong to this new breed because I'm featured in the article, along with a handful of others — including my all-time favorite advice-giving atheist, Richard Wade.
A woman writes a book for the Girl Scouts of the USA and then, a couple of years later, authors a website about nonreligious parenting. Which one ends up as fodder for the conservative media giant Fox News? Why, the Girl Scouts, of course!
Temptation bundling: The coupling of instantly gratifying ‘want’ activities (e.g. scrolling social media) with engagement in a ‘should’ behavior providing long-term benefits (e.g. eating nutritious food).